How did your parents tell you that you were adopted and at what age?

This question is for adoptive parents or adopted children... a family member of mine is adopted and she doesn't know yet, at what age did you tell your child or did your parents tell you and how? She is in her 20s now and she has no idea. With every passing year her option to find her biological family grows... show more This question is for adoptive parents or adopted children... a family member of mine is adopted and she doesn't know yet, at what age did you tell your child or did your parents tell you and how?

She is in her 20s now and she has no idea. With every passing year her option to find her biological family grows farther away, and she should surely have that option if she wishes to explore it...
Update: (She's married with a child now and as far as I know lives in a different state to where she was born and where she was adopted.)
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