Have you tried prosper.com? That's pretty much a personal community where you post the amount you need and people can bid on financing your loan.
I'm sorry you're having such serious financial issues hon...I understand completely, as my own income level is down considerably from what it was at this time last year, mostly due to the fact that my once-abundant musical work has almost completely dried up.
You might want to take time to visit a debt counselor, they might be able to help you out with a leaner budget, and they usually do such services free or for very low cost. They might also be able to recommend somewhere you can get a short-term loan for initial help. Good luck, sorry I couldn't help more, and I hope you will be able to save enough to get your own Thanksgiving dinner this year.