I don't add your contacts but if the answers in your Question are from possible good people then I'll add them to my Contact list. When I receive a question from that new Contact that is on a subject that doesn't interest me, I'll drop that Contact.
Sometimes, I'll review a new Contact's Q & A to see if they have any qualities that are worthy of my Contact List.
Some contacts I add may have some personal issues and then I'll add them, hoping they might contact me. If I don't get an invite or an answer in one of my Questions from them, or at least a star, I'll drop them after a few days or so.
I have never done that. I'll ask before I add someone, and I usually wait until someone adds me or asks me before I add them. Maybe some people like having a lot of contacts, idk? I'm getting used to seeing a lot of your contacts from answering your questions and the questions you've starred, and you have some pretty nice contacts. They can add me if they want, but when someone out of the blue adds me, it makes me a little suspicious.
Have a nice day/night, too!
Yep, it is hard to be a woman that is man, that is a nun, that is a 12 year old girl, that is an infant, that is a 17 year old boy, that is a 72 year old trans-gender person, that is a Buddhist monk, all trapped in one tiny little brain ;D