first you have to ask yourself what your goal is - are you asking the question b/c you've got a lot of bush and its kind of protruding into your bikini (or underwear) or are you starting to date and are curious to the preferences of a guy.
well 1st off i'm a 22 year old male and i've had probably at least 10 sexual partners - and i can tell you that shaved is much much better. i don't personally like feeling any bush on my skin during foreplay or intercourse - and looking at nude female body - less is more - think about it.. do guys like hairy arms/armpits, arms, legs, *** hairs, back hairs on women? not unless you're in france baby. so why would a guy want it on your ********? (vagina). now some guys don't mind per se if you have some hair down there but generally speaking no one wants a monster shrub growing down there either. it really depends on where you live as well. if you live in the West Coast, especially California or Socal, then you should definitely shave it - whether you're good looking or not, it will only improve your appearances Generally Speaking to other boys/men. Try looking at google images of some hairy bush images of women and then type shaved women or shaved vagina...i know it sounds crude, but you should see pictures of the difference - develop an understanding for the difference. I forgot to mention this, but you should also talk about this with your mom if you have a good relationship with her.. if not, just take my advice and shave it
beware tho, if you shave it bald (bald is best), you probably will get minor razor burn..you have to be gentle shaving - prep up with some shaving mostiurizers, apply creams after the shave to soften skin and reduce razor burn..razor burn are the tiny, red irritated bumps you get from shaving..they go away about two days after shaving..and the more you shave, the tougher your skin will get down there and the easier it will be
in the 70s and 80s, hairy bush was normal, common and actually preferred among the majority of men ( i can only speak for the west coast) -- in the mid 90's to present - men have switched preferences to heavily trimmed to completely shaved..you want proof? watch any porn video from the 70's or 80's, then watch a present day one...i'd estimate at least 7 out of 10 famous pornstars have completly bald vaginas (with maybe a purposely left strip of hair), 1 out of those 10 have a recently shaved (short hair), and the remaining 2 out of 10 actually have a bush (but still trimmed short)
14 is not too young to shave , but i would caution against having sex until you understand the implications of having sex - be selective with your partner, be rational (don't be drunk and havin sex haha), and always make him toss a glove on (condom)..
finally, would you let the hair on your head just grow and get wild without fixing it all up pretty? eliminate the need to groom your pubic hairs and just shave them off completely, --some added benefits is not only does it look cleaner and nicer to many men, but it doesn't take away from your other assets (your buns, hips, legs) as a hairy bush would..(trust me, men would only see the hair and not notice anything else)....
i kinda forget i was talking to a 14 year old, so don't worry about what guys want right now, not for at least another two years or so..just take this advice and concentrate on school and getting good grades!..
edit: also id like to point out that when seeking advice dealing with the opposite sex (men), sexual intercourse, beauty tips, etc.. its fine to get advice from women, but theres nothing like getting the input of a guy in these subjects (when you're older, of course)...not to be sexist in any way, but women think they can accurately judge exactly what men want all the time - not true...read the above comments for yourself - all from women - "do what you want," "its up t you" "its not necessary" "how do u feel about it?" ..pretty useless answers right? these women might've found men that like bush, but those men are few and far between here in LA county and Orange county (California)..take the advice of a man amidst a bunch of other men who know exactly what they want...if you're looking to please a man..all you got to do is ask...we men are very easy and simple to please.
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