De-flowered problems :D?
Well, I recently lost it. No, not my mind. And it HURT. I don't miss the V-club at all, lol.
But anyway, those women with experience: It was really sore for a couple of days afterward. Is that unusual?
It's just that I've always believed it was only supposed to hurt for a few minutes after the hymen is first torn. But maybe I'm wrong? :\
- Shortstuff13Lv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
The first time can be painful for many reasons & many virgins experience what you did. It will feel better before long. Look up the word "hymen" & read what it says. People call it the "cherry" & when a gal loses her virginity, it's said that the gal's cherry was popped. That is just bunk. A man's penis, doesn't pop anything. Look up the word hymen & you'll see what I mean.
edit: You may have experienced after pain for many reasons, such as:
vaginal dryness from lack of foreplay/lack of having a orgasm
the guy's penis being large
you being very tense
- 1DisneyNutLv 61 decade ago
If only it hurt for a few minutes! If only it didn't hurt at all! haha. But yes what you are experiencing is very normal. Mine actually hurt for about a week. It really sucks but once it's done an over with life is good! :p
- 1 decade ago
Nah. I waited until I got married, and oh My GOD did it hurt.
And it wasn't only the sharp pain of the initial tear, no no no! It was sore and crampy for a few days and helped prevent us from being able to do it again until like, 4 days.
Heal up, next time you do it, it should be fine.
- Mr. PantsLv 51 decade ago
a couple of days is normal. Sorry, not a girl -just a bored guy.