can a white guy say the "N" word if he is dating a black chick?

i have been dating a black chick for 5 years now and she doesn't care if i say it (which is usually in the middle of a joke) but i just wanted to know if i say it around other black people in a joking manner will they be offended assuming they know i have a black gf

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  • 1 decade ago
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    i use the word niqqa referring to men, black, white, all men, all the time. but i dont think anybody should use the -er ending version.. i get mad at black ppl when they do it and tell them theyre disrespecting themselves.

    Source(s): new york area. everybody calls men niqqas the same way they call women bxtchs.
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Individually it depends on the Black but in general if you are white you dont say it in a crowd of Blacks. Blacks always take a public stance against White peoples usage of the word but on an individual level, some dont care but as a group, they care very much

    Source(s): Grew up in Baltimore, Maryland 2/3 Black
  • 1 decade ago

    I don't like when anyone says it, my sisters say it and I can't stand it. I find it disrespectful but it doesn't really bother me to where I would start whining about it. I mean. I've had white friends say it and it doesn't phase me in the least, just more people saying the word.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I'm with a black woman and I never use that word. Our household does not allow it. It's an ugly word. Period.

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  • 1 decade ago

    He can't say it even more if he's dating a Black chick because of the history of slavery.

    I mean, i've seen White girls who shout out racial slurs when they are doing it with Black partners, but that's mild, "F___ me with the n___ c00k" LOL

  • 1 decade ago

    I doubt you're being serious bcuz if you were why not ask your girlfriend instead of coming on Y!A

  • 1 decade ago

    No

    No one regardless of race or situation should say it.It doesn't excuse it or make it any better

  • Sybil
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    I think it's disgusting for anyone to use the "N" word no matter what their color.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Neither blacks or whites should say it!

  • .
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    go slap yourself

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