We r also 3 young marrieds who like the idea of Strip poker, but r so far too shy to take off that last article. And the guys r as shy or more so than the girls, but we r all loosening up bit by bit. At 1st losing meant u just have on underpants. That didn't seem much of a penalty, and since the game didn't end until 3 player lost, 1st & 2nd losers had to drop out and wait. So, we too needed penalties so everyone would stay in til the end and also, the more times u lost the more u paid the price. Now after u r in just panties or shorts & lose the next time u get swats from ur spouse, with everyone watching! 2nd loss: swats from ea member of opp sex. 3rd: swats from all players. Then the 4th time or more the spouse takes the loser into the next room, then comes back out with loser's underpants to prove she/he is naked inside.They get hung on door knob. Then behind closed door, while the other players gather around to heckle & hear the bare swats being administered inside, the naked loser is "punished"..Loser gets undies back on before coming back out. Game ends when 3 losers have visited the punishment room at least once. It's a pretty interesting game. Except that I have been in that penalty room far more times than anyone else!!! We'll graduate to the REAL game b4 long. Hope to see some tips in Answers.