You still seem confused with what you really want!
You said, "because right now i am not willing to give up on the relationship just yet. I am always going to put Jehovah first no matter what". Yet your still with your boyfriend! That's not putting Jehovah first.
Did not Satan convince Eve that it was the right thing from eating from the tree? That desirable thing that Satan put in front of her cost her, her life!
We are commanded to only marry in the lord, its a command. There are so many brothers and sisters that marry out of the lord, some have even said, "there is no one in the truth for me". That's like saying to Jehovah no -one in your organization is good enough for me. I am not saying you said that, but the reality is, putting Jehovah first will give you rich blessings.
Matthew 6:33, “Keep on, then, seeking first the kingdom and his righteousness, and all these [other] things will be added to YOU.
Lets say, that your boyfriend does not except the truth, you get married and Armageddon comes! How will you feel, knowing that he may not get through in to the new system? When the great tribulation comes, will your husband be strong enough to help you get through it. It isn't called "The Great Tribulation" for nothing.
When the tribulation comes, if your boyfriend/husband is not in the truth, you "may" start to resent been in the truth knowing what is shortly going to take place, that could in return cost you your life. That would be such a shame when you have got so far.
Your brothers and sisters are here to help you, so are those from your old cong. Why not make a stand for the truth and contact an elder and start on the narrow path to everlasting life, that is just on the "horizon".
Whatever you decide, if you came back in the truth, you will be blessed from Jehovah. Remember that Jehovah never lets go of us, it's us who let go of him! Draw close to Jehovah, and he will draw close to you.