you NEED to find a good person. it IS REALLY important, because they may spread that your a slut (for being 14, as it is illegal) and you MAY regret it the rest of your life. if it is same sex, no pregnancy. but contraception doesn't equal a protection against STD's and STI's.
if you want to not use contraception, then you have to find someone that doesn't have any sexual health issues or a virgin. pregnancy can happen your first time, and on your period, ect. now down to the sex. in sex, their is only one way to get pregnant directly : vaginal intercourse. oral, mammary, anal, ect cannot get you pregnant(directly) but it can give you STD's and STI's. the only for of contraception that blocks STD's and STI's, and pregnancy, is the condom. on a male. once you man of your choice has his junk wrapped,(or same sex, a dildo with a condom as it might be unclean, or no contraception) choose what you wanna do. if vaginal, it may hurt like a ************. because, your hymen (if not already broken) will break, and it will hurt, and you will bleed (a little). a way to losen things up is to do gymnastics, ride horses, masturbate vaginally, stuff like that. if you just keep going, (sex) it will hurt less and less. if you want to keep your hymen in tact, do other forms of sex. hand job are a good way to start, as they are not in contact with anything but the hands, and you cant get preggo. (unless you rub the semen all over you hole) after your done, clean up, if he came inside you, douche, and take a good bath. mention this TO NO ONE, and don't act all weird after words. if you are catholic(or other religion that bans contraception, as i am catholic,) make him pull out, but the is still a chance you can get pregnant, as pre-cuum (it censors ***) can still get you preggo. contraception and abortion are way different. abortion is when you terminate at any stage once the sperm and egg have joined. contraception prevents the sperm and egg from joining. minors have reproductive rights, so you can birth control from planned parent hood (or other places) with out your parents knowing. if you have any questions, email me
i am only 12, but i love medicine. hope this helps, and dont doubt it one minute.
i know people....