Question for monogamous bisexuals?

What do you do when you have urges and constand fantasies about the sex that you're not with and are in a committed long term relationship?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Sex is sex. There's not too much of a difference between straight and lesbian sex to me. I also watch porn.

  • Ignore them? Realize that this nice long term relationship is built on more than just urges and fantasies and I get along with this person on many levels and it'd be really stupid to throw that away for this other person who I'm probably not as compatible with.

  • 1 decade ago

    As the person before me said, it's the same as being in a straight relationship. Everyone's eyes wander but that doesn't mean they want to bed every single person they find attractive.

    Do you get 'urges' to get with a person who doesn't have the same traits as the person you're dating?

    It's the same thing.

  • 1 decade ago

    when your bisexual, and you find that one person you love, you commit yourself to that person. its exactly like being in a straight relationship...you wouldnt cheat because if your truly in love, you can overcome those other fantasies

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