How do I Tell My Mom about my boyfriend?

One day i pulled out my yearbook and she asked me who my former boyfriends were, so i told her and she didn't really trip. But now i have a new boyfriend and his parents already know about me, but im kind of scared to tell my mom about him.

Update:

i really want to tell my mom about him because he wants to rlly be involved in my life unlike my last boyfriends

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  • 1 decade ago

    dont listen to other people. just go for it. i was in the same situation. but my mom was totally cool with it. now my mom just loves my boyfriend. just go right out and tell her. it might make it easier if you two were alone like go on a car ride to the mall with her and tell her then. as long as hes not some serial killer, she wont flip. hope this helps!!

    -lindseilou

  • 1 decade ago

    What would be wrong with telling your mom,

    If he is a good guy.

    Then she should be there for you.

    Of course she is there to protect you because

    thats what parents do,so she might not seem so pleased with him..

    But how else would your relationship move along without your mom knowing?

  • 1 decade ago

    Do, Hiding things can only get you in a heep load of trouble bring it up causally like you want it to be normale like say 'I and so and So had a fun time on a date' or 'So and So told me this amazing story he's my boyfriend' somthing like that

  • "Hey mom, guess who asked me out today!"

    "Omg who?"

    "Skyler! Omg I am so excited! Can I go to the movies with him tomorrow?"

    "Why of course! I want details when you get home!"

    OR

    "So would you flip if I told you I was dating somebody?"

    "No. Why would I?"

    "I didn't know how you would take it."

    "So who is he? Is he cute?"

    *Insert Gossip Here*

    OR

    "Hey mom can I go to the movies Friday?"

    "Who with?"

    "Skylor, he's my new boyfriend."

    Something to that effect...

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    just tell her like hey mom i want you to meet my new boyfriend

  • Edwin
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Why? Seems to me your mom is taking it relaxed. Even she was young once, probably even your age. She may have had her share of boyfriends herself. I guess she would welcome him regardless.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Bring him over and just be like "mom this is my friend ... " dont say boyfriend just say friend.. your mom will know ;)

    thanks for the thumbs down ! PFFT!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    whats the worst that will happen really think about that the worst is nothing nothing will happen

  • 1 decade ago

    you just tell her and invite him over when you do.... .

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    don't.

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