Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

How to flirt with guys at an amusement park? (guys, i would like to hear from you especially.))?

11 Answers

  • 1 decade ago
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    Men are very simple and easy to manipulate. You show them any kind of attention and they'll respond back. Start with a simple smile and see if he reciprocates. You could be a little sneaky and ask for him to sit next to you on the ride. You'll see after that if he takes the bait how easy conversation is and then the rest will speak for it's self.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Depends if you know the guys or if you dont know them.

    If you do : Wear something that makes you feel flirty. Flirting is all about attitude and, while a guy's receptiveness to your flirting may depend greatly on how you look, the most important thing is to dress in a way that makes you feel good about yourself. You could look fantastic in a mini skirt and heels, but if you feel uncomfortable and not like yourself, and you slouch and cross your arms and display unapproachable body language, you'll be a terrible flirt. Experiment with your appearance until you can look at your reflection in the mirror and feel like you've given your beauty the representation it deserves. Accept yourself, revel in your best features and your individuality, and you'll have a great foundation for flirting: confidence.

    Be playful. Don't be uptight. Don't worry about how you look. Don't get too hung up on everything being perfect. Just relax. Smile. Be goofy, crack jokes, and laugh. Be laid back. Have fun.

    Use positive body language. Angle yourself toward other people, sit or stand with an upright (but not stiff) posture, and uncross your arms. Make eye contact. Smile often. See How to Look Approachable.

    Break the touch barrier. Touch him lightly on the arm or shoulder when you're talking. Just make it a quick, innocent touch and don't make a big deal out of it. Holding hands is also a good way to break the touch barrier. The simple act of touching can strengthen the intimacy between you and him. Sometimes a guy will break the touch barrier, and if you're comfortable with him doing so, touch him back. But don't wait for a guy to make the first move here, because girls can generally get away with breaking the touch barrier earlier in a relationship more than guys can. Also another good way of breaking the touch barrier is to "compare hand sizes" then smile and lace your fingers for a moment. This is a cute way to "break the barrier." A perfect, subtle way to touch him without just reaching up and grabbing his arm or something is to brush imaginary fuzz off of his shoulder or something, or fix his sweatshirt string, or pick an imaginary hair off of his shirt. Totally subtle and initiates comfortable boundary-crossing in an innocent manner. Casually tap him while laughing, rest your head on his shoulder if you’re tired and hold his hand when you're nervous.

    Compliment him. Be sure to compliment them in a casual and friendly way on things that are true. Sometimes people will make up compliments just to talk to someone, but that is the total wrong thing to do. You really should compliment on things you really like, so you sound more sincere naturally. Some times complimenting their family or other things they are proud of works.

    If you dont: Make eye contact and smile. If you are walking in the opposite direction, turn around and look at the guy. If he does, watch to see which rides he goes on. Maybe 1 or 2 rides later, go into the same ride, preferably behind him in line. Bump into him, and act like you recognize him from when you made eye contact, and smile and start a conversation. Then just follow the above directions to keep flirting.

    Good Luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    Just wear something really sexy make heads turn first.

    When you see a guy you like looking at you smile. Some guys are shy so walk over and say hi and take him on a ride to break the ice. tease them lol

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    While watching fireworks (if the amusement park you are thinking of does that at night), at the top of a rollercoaster, or right after a rollercoaster before you guys get out of your seats.

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  • 1 decade ago

    A woman tried this with me at disneyland. She cut the line with her child and acted as if she was with me. I played along and we spoke briefly until the rest of her family came and then it was a problem because I didn't quite fit in with the picture because she was Chinese and show was her peoples!

  • 1 decade ago

    Simple: grab onto him when you get scared or maybe mention that ice cream would be delicious! and then get some of this ice cream on his hand or face. licking it off is optional. Also challenge him to some of the games there, tell him you totally can beat him in any of them.

  • 1 decade ago

    Tell him you'd love him to win you something (like a teddy bear or something) .. That usually works.

  • 1 decade ago

    Get into a conversation and persuade him to go on rides with you.

  • 1 decade ago

    spot a scary ride..find yur target (guy) nd tell him yu dnt wanna get on by yurself..ask him to get on with you :)

  • 1 decade ago

    Same as you would anywhere else

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