? asked in HealthDiseases & ConditionsSTDs · 1 decade ago

Do u think it is rude to ask a girl to get tested for HIV and STDs before u have sex?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Not at all and if she refuses than obv refuse to sleep w/ her. Their are many clean fish in the sea.

  • 1 decade ago

    I guess that depends on a few things. How long have you been dating? Has she told you she's had sex with others in the past?

    If you know she's not a virgin, you could just say "why don't we both get checked for all STDs before we decide to have sex". If you two have a relationship, then this conversation shouldn't be too difficult. If you don't feel comfortable enough with her to talk about this, then maybe you should be having sex with her?

    As for getting HIV, if you use a condom every time and you have "normal" sex, you're unlikely to get HIV from her even if she has it. The transmission rate from women to me during "normal" intercourse is very low, so she probably doesn't have it. But she could have other things that can cause you problems, and some of those you can get even with a condom.

    Good luck. I say, suggest you both get tested. You can do it for free at most health departments.

    Source(s): I'm a healthcare writer for a hospital, and I've had these tests myself (asked my husband to get tested and I got tested before we did anything).
  • 1 decade ago

    No, it isn't rude. It's being responsible & cautious. I mean, if you're using condoms, they're pretty effective. (Although not 100%) so, I wouldn't worry too much if you're using condoms. However, you should never have unprotected sex unless you know the other person doesn't have anything. (Make sure you get tested annually, also.) So, no I do not think it's rude. It's actually a really responsible thing to do.

  • 1 decade ago

    Not at all. It all depends on the level you are both at in your relationship. If you both have been together for awhile then it might be a problem as it looks like you don't trust her or anything she has said to you. However if it is still early in the relationship then I do not see why it would be offensive. Ultimately you come first in your life and it is not a bad idea for both of you to get tested.

    Source(s): Emergency Medical Technician
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  • 1 decade ago

    thats the most important but the most annoying subject at all. it seems like its a bit rude to ask but for christ sake, u can even die if you dont find out whats going on behind.

    but before ur asking

    1. be sure YOU are not the one who s carrying HIV or STDs .. i mean u should be checked first

    2. be kind. she is a girl.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I dont think it is as long as you put it in a nice way...some thing like this:

    "listen i know that out relationship has progressed into a higher level but before we go any further I want us BOTH to get tested just to make sure were fine"

    I would defiantly not get pissed even though Iam pretty sensitive !

    Source(s): Meee
  • 1 decade ago

    Nope, so long as you are open to providing her with the same information. I think it is great that you care enough about your health and well-being to even contemplate that. That is a very smart thing to do. But like I said, if you would be offended if she wanted the same in return, then you are a hypocrite.

  • B K
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    It is not only rude but something that you HAVE to do. You HAVE to ask the status of the person before having sex. This is called safer sex.

  • 1 decade ago

    Hell no!..whats rude is them telling you "Oh By the way..I think I may have a STD" right after. Or worse, not telling you but knowing.

    Source(s): Tesa aint no fool....mama taught me right.
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