Where does grace come from?How do we get it? Lose it?

Update: Does it have to be God, cats or ettiquette
Update 2: Wren...not so much for me...
Update 3: Caleb Gosa....A state of grace ?

Grace under fire ? Amazing Grace?
" Let he who is without sin throw the first stone" Open dialogue is not lies
it is a path to mutual understanding...right?
Update 4: Paul...great answer
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