Cheating saved my marriage. Women over age 35 don't want a wuss, they want a man who's confident and who other woman want sex with. Women under 35 are generally not mature enough to handle the emotional issues involved and will usually self-destruct and destroy their lives, their families, and their children in a rage storm of self-pity and victim-hood. (this applies to American women BTW)
Women in other cultures and most other countries accept their men having flings and mistresses. In Europe, the wife and the girlfriend are often good friends with each other. Muslims are allowed up to 4 wives as long as they have the wealth and can afford it. In Asia, married women often pick out the girlfriend to make sure she's not someone who can threaten the family.
On the flip side, married women generally don't cheat unless they've moved on emotionally therefore a cheating wife is usually a divorce. There are exceptions, but by middle age successful men are so much in demand that they should never accept a cheating wife. It's a double-standard, but then again a female praying mantis will kill and eat her mate so life was never ment to be fair.
· 1 decade ago