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a really quick question..am i over him?!?

im going to make this as simple as posssible

how come i say that i

am over this guy and want to be with other ppl

but he still is the first person a think about when i wake up

and the last person i think about before i go to sleep

and during the day he is always on my mind

we have beeen through so much together but

now we dont even talk..

idk how to really get over him

i dont think i can

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  • 1 decade ago
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    you still have feelings for him...but you just have to be strong..you will always think of him..trust me..i dont know what you can do..i know it wwould help if you guys were atleast friends

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    This is actually a trick question and one of the counter intuitive things about life.

    TIME does NOT heal wounds like this and WON'T make you feel better.

    You have to MAKE YOURSELF go out and find someone new, even if you aren't interested in him. After you start a new relationship your mind will get more off your old one and more onto your new one, until one day you won't even bother to think about the old one anymore.

    Source(s): Life and past relationships.
  • 1 decade ago

    I know what you mean. it can be so hard... Just WHENEVER you get the urge to be sad or start thinking about him, listen to the song "goodbye by Kristinia DeBarge". Or if he cheated on you or something "Shattered Glass by britney Spears" I have a whole lsit of songs if you want more!

    I know it can be hard

  • 1 decade ago

    these things take time. It's not as if the minute you break up you don't care about him anymore, of course you will!

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  • 1 decade ago

    you'll get over him when you meet the right person, just give it some time.

  • 1 decade ago

    sounds like you need closure.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If you have to ask, you're not over him.

  • i don't think you are but you will be sooner or later

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