Ditto Rez. Well said. It is something we all have the inclination to do, at some level or another, for one reason or another. Christians are not exempt from being human. The way many of them excuse their own flaws is disgusting, though. As you know, Steph, I am going through a difficult situation at home. I have some very supportive people, Christian and atheist, in my life. I have others who in one breath ask for prayers for a dying child, then in the next become my judge and jury. It is something to behold.