The same question has been posted again here. The typical answer by a Greek to this question would be 'We used to be bloond, till Turks came and raped us'. This is what he would like to listen to.
As I had stated in my previous answer (deleted unfortunately) it was the Turks that took people from us and not the other way around.
The Greek women who were kidnapped by the Turks, bore children that later became muslims and thus Turks.
Those women were legal wives or slaves.
A muslim woman couldn't marry a Christian, because Sharia law banned with death the muslim, who would convert to another religion. In the contrary, the punishment for crimes commited by Christians, were often deleted, if they converted to Islam.
A Christian man couldn't marry a turkish woman too.
This is how the Ottomans became the majority from a tiny minority that they were at the beginning.
If you take a look at ancient statues and vases, you'll see that Greeks even then were in their majority black haired.
It is not that we became black after the Turkish occupation. Greeks were always ...Mediterraneans.
But sorry, not Middle Eastern looking.
And if we looked like this, it wouldn't be a problem for me.