The first thing to do is give your wife an ultimatum, she realizes what she is doing and agrees to marriage counseling or you leave. This may shock her out of her behavior and lead to a turn around, however you have to make good on this or you will remain stuck in this situation
Alternatively you could confront her mother, ask her if she is turning her against you, or if she has a problem with you, try and get to the source of this problem from the one who started it, but this will probably just lead to your wife turning agaisnt you even more
to be honest though, it seems to me as if your heart is already out of the door and ready to go, 2 years is a long time and her behavior is out of control, it seems like she may even be cheating on you. As people you have both probably grown apart to the extent that perhaps there is little you can do.
Only you know if you want to try and salvage this relationship, but if you see no future and no this cannot go on than perhaps a divorce is the way to go. Just please god, make sure your daughter stays out of it and doesn't become a victim of an acrimonious break up.
In the end something's got to give: either you issue an ultimatum and give her one last chance, or you go.
· 1 decade ago