There are many types of people on xbox live.. My favorite are
"The Sympathetic Male"-- You know the type.. when the guys start talking **** to the girl, some dude in the room is like "hey man that's messed up, leave her alone"... this is just a ploy to gain your trust, so they can hit on you
"The asshole male"--- the one that tells you to go back in the kitchen and cook
"The Nice Male.. who hits on you"--- "It's so cool you're a girl and you play video games.. that's so awesome, we should play sometimes.. OH by the way do you have a boyfriend?"
"The Asshole Male who hits on you"---"Hey baby you sound hot why don't you suck my dick."
"The Awesome Male"--- we love him.. he doesn't hit on you. He just wants to play some games..
"The Gamer Girl--with a girl complex"-- "She plays with all guys and thinks she is awesome because the guys stick up for her, and give her all the attention she wants, she will say "You're a ***** who probably weighs 300 pounds, get a life..." when she herself is probably so...
"The Awesome Gamer Girl"-- she is just awesome and we love her..
The truth is my dear, you'll will meet all of these people.. possibly in one lobby. I play COD4 and CODWAW. You will hear this **** all day and you have 3 options
Don't talk at all
Or roll with it-- be a lady while being one of the guys..
Eventually you will meet some real awesome people to play with regularly. And these people will be you posse for all the losers on there. lol
As you can see by some of the comments already posted.. it's no different on the net