does it count for rape if your boyfriend didn't listen when u told him to stop during sex?

he pushed me against the wall but he stopped when i told him to. then i told him to keep going. but i stopped him in the middle and he wouldn't stop

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  • 1 decade ago
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    That absolutely counts. If he heard you, and didn't stop. It counts.

    I don't think I'd be comfortable dating a guy who didn't listen in a situation as serious as that. You should definitely have a talk with him, and ask him if he was aware of what he did. If he was... I don't think he's worth sticking with.

    When you get into an intimate situation like that, you need a partner that you trust, and that respects you. A guy that wouldn't listen when you asked him to stop is selfish and disrespectful, not to mention, breaking the law.

    Something like that can be hard to get over, and it could be hard for you to trust him, or other guys, in a situation like that ever again.

    If it really bothers you, it wouldn't hurt to talk to someone about it, or seek counseling. Don't ever downplay a situation like that into making yourself think that its "no big deal".

    Good luck :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    technically yes but it's very ****** up on your part. why because you said stop then go then stop once in the middle, i'm not making excuse but females have no idea how hard it is to stop having sex in the middle of the act. especially when one minute they say go then the next stop. it's not fair and i really hope you don't get this guy in trouble.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just so you know "rape" or "Sexual assault" is different than "Sexual harassment" - one is a crime and the other is a civil wrong...

    Either way, if you don't want to continue with something then you have every right to stop at any time...and if he doesn't, then it is rape...at least that's how it's typically defined.

    However, what bothers me is that you seem a little misleading...i.e. I want it, but I don't want it. And for your protection, as well as his, don't do it unless you're sure. Because making a pattern of inconsistent desires will make you seem less credible, as well...

    Maintain your integrity and stand by your desires.

    Just my opinion

  • 1 decade ago

    The only thing wrong with this scenario is that he didn't use your hair to clean himself off.

    He did not rape you. You permitted him to make you his semen receptacle and during the act, you had 2nd thoughts, then you changed you mind, and then you changed your mine again. Maybe before you go trying to have an adult relationship.....you should spend some time growing up.

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  • 1 decade ago

    if u clearly said stop and he didnt listen then yes it could be classified as rape.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes.

    Yes.

    YES.

    As soon as you said no and he did it anyways? Yes, that is rape. I wouldn't go near this guy ever, ever again.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    not really... if you told him to stop and he stopped.. and u told him to keep going and then u told him to stop and he didn't, than maybe he thought you were joking... alsoo if he was having an orgasm.. maybe he didnt want to stop?

  • 1 decade ago

    You can't tell a guy stop while he's almost having his orgasm,,

    Like you wouldn't stop if you were almost having yours and he told you to stop. Would you stop? NO

  • 1 decade ago

    yes its rape if u don't consent to it and u told him to stop and he didn't i would stay away from him honey xxx

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes and that is also sexual harassment. I would call authorities and get away from him

    Source(s): A very worried 14 year old girl who just learned all about this in sex ed class
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