Your whole letter point to a disaster in this marriage.
And you should not be soft hearted just because of your kid
were so attached to him.
You must understand yourself well to make decisions
in this matter, kids are not that hard to convince,
you shouldn't worry about that.
however, lately you've been guessing a lot and this seems
bad for your marriages and your insecurities.
Since he admitted, meaning you're right and the decisions
you gonna make down the road will be RIGHT as well.
But you want some advice and opinions to confirm your instincts.
Since the kids doesn't belongs to him,
don't try to make it worse than it already is.
And I still believe that you're capable to look for others
to satisfy your REAL needs.
The bug should end here.
Good luck and take care.
· 1 decade ago