Why is it that I think that no guy is good enough for me and I'm not good enough for any guy?

Basically, I think I am the s****, and I don't think any guy out there is worthy of my relationship. At the (exact) same time, I don't think I'm good enough for any guy. What could be my problem? Please help

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  • 1 decade ago
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    even though you have a high opinion of yourself- you have some low self confidence- we all lack it in some ways.

    Don't get too hung up on who's too good or what not. Go with your gut instinct and avoid the jerks!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well, I don't know you too well to tell you what the problem is. But I would suggest that you just try being with someone... There's got to be someone. And you should see that it will turn out well and you will see yourself as at least a little better. That is, if the guy is an okay guy. Just don't worry about it too much if you really can't find anyone right now... But don't tell yourself that you're not good enough. You'll meet someone soon. :)

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Everybody is like that. For me, I have incredibly high standards (I wouldn't even date 99% of the girls I meet), but I used to have self-esteem issues and would settle for less than I want. The trick is becoming skilled/talented at something and reaching your potential in life, while remaining true to yourself and the things you love, and then you will know in your heart you're good enough for anyone.

    Great question by the way.

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  • 1 decade ago

    maybe this is a good thing, in the meantime work on yourself? In a relationship you will only let a partner get away with treating you the very same ways you treat yourself, at the moment that doesn't look too good. You are full of self-worth, you just wont let yourself discover it.

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  • alrod
    Lv 4
    3 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    You intend the lack of being out there.

    Maybe if you get to know a guy, and beconme friends then go out and see were it goes, you might feel better.

    No one likes a stuck up brat(no offense), and dont be ashamed of getting into a relationship.

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  • 1 decade ago

    u never gone find anybd with that type of mind. wen u get over thinking the s**** u can find a man thats worthy it.

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  • 1 decade ago

    this is my sisters problem...she is not confident with herself...and to attract guys you need to act like you the **** but not rudley. u will have your time and find a guy who fits you perfect just dont be to pushy. just go with the flow

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  • J
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    well you think that you are worth more than the guys that like you or whutever (which is great cuz sooo many girls these days let guys take advantage of them) and when you see guys you think, nah i dont think im good enoguh for them cuz thats natural for girls, we always can think that.

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  • Bob N
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Ego. It happens a lot.

    Calm the heck down and find somebody safe, and flirt with him / hang out with him.

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