Can I lose my virginity in a Prostate exam?

Hello I am 49 year old virgin (waiting for the right girl) and when I went to my doctor he said I should get a prostate exam. I was okay with that until the female doctor told me she was going to penetrate my ***hole with her finger. I am a born-again Christian and now I'm having second thoughts because I... show more Hello I am 49 year old virgin (waiting for the right girl) and when I went to my doctor he said I should get a prostate exam.

I was okay with that until the female doctor told me she was going to penetrate my ***hole with her finger. I am a born-again Christian and now I'm having second thoughts because I think this is a sin (I'm not sure).

Please help me .
Update: I'm really nervous because I have seen videos on Prostate exams and it looks painful.
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