Why Girls never make the first step?

Asked by a shy guy.

Tips welcome.

When I said FIRST STEP , I mean the first time to ask someone out.

13 Answers

  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I've done that before

    Everyone in the room turned their attention to me and looked at me like I had 10 heads

    That's why

  • Sahar
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Maybe because girls are shyer than guys...we kinda expect you to ask us first, but these days it's the other way around. And that's not completely true. My friend asked this really shy guy out to prom.

    Also, you usually see the guy make the first move...so we're waiting:)

  • 3 years ago

    in my opinion, i actual do no longer suggestions making the 1st circulate, i think of it makes the guy actual experience reliable and in contrast to i could be asserting definite just to be extreme high quality. yet with maximum of my acquaintances they are scared and embarrassed to be placed down, or rejected. Oh, i'm 18 by the way.

  • 1 decade ago

    Any or a combination of these:

    -They are insecure

    -They think its traditional for the guy to make the first step

    -They think that it'd be slutty or desperate if they did

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  • 1 decade ago

    Because it shows us girls that you have the confidence to do something for your self. Also because we like a guy to take the lead.

  • 1 decade ago

    Because that is very weird and thats a guys job NOT a girls job....get used to it

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Because they want to see if a guy is confident enough to ask her out, if he is too scared, he is not boyfriend material and is probably scared of other things in life.....

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    cause guys shhould be a man and take the first step.

  • 1 decade ago

    Because it's the man's job.

  • 1 decade ago

    lol because were not supposed to silly:]

    and some guys are really mean.

    were afraid of rejection haha

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