You know what, I've been going out with my boyfriend (now ex boyfriend) for 4 years. In those 4 years, he has NEVER once asked me what I wanted for my birthday, never asked me what I wanted for valentines day, never asked me if i even wanted to go to senior prom. YES! it is quite obvious they should know what we want and they do know...but from my experience, my ex dumped me because after 4 years he told me he didn't love me like how I loved him...he's not attracted to me anymore etc. Every man out there is capable of sweeping a woman off her feet and if your man is not doing that?...he's not into you. Trust me here. My ex told me he was fully capable of being romantic and getting his gf's things and all but he also told me that when guys don't do much for there gf's...it means there not "feeling" them like how we feel them. I know it hurts but now I've moved on from him and now I'm in a healthy relationship where my guy treats me like a QUEEN. does everything that I want, brings me whatever I want and put a smile on my face everyday AND gets me a card for valentines day. My ex never got me a card either...I was the one getting him everyday and letting him off easily...and my love for him...he took advantage of that =( Basically, you shoudl talk to him about this, see his reaction..if he shows concern and care and chages his ways than he does care for you and love you and is willing to make things work...BUT, if he is casual about it...like "whats the big deal" kind of thing..ooo it's just a gift...than dump him.
Remember, guys are at there BEST behavior when dating.
my own experience.
· 1 decade ago