How would she have access to these things if she was in a refugee camp? Very suspect! For real. They don't even have medical care but they have computers, phones, etc? If you want to help people, which it sounds like you do (and that is a good thing in this world, don't get me wrong!) volunteer through the Red Cross or donate money to UNICEF or something. This reeks of scam. Put your money and efforts into something you know is legitimate!
ETS: Ahhh, this scam! It is a famous one. She will tell you she cannot access the money, but she will transfer it to your account and then you can somehow send it to her via another way. All she needs is your bank account number so she can deposit the money. See where this is going? Then once she has your bank number she will just remove all the money from it. OR, all you have to do to help her get her 9 million, is to send her x amount of dollars for a wire transfer fee or bribe for officials or other such nonsense, and then she will split the 9 million with you. Needless to say, "she" just takes your x amount of dollars and you never see the money your are promised. It will not make you feel any better, but many people have fallen for this. I put a link at the bottom for you. This "lady" does not exist. It is just a variation on the fraud below
If your parents will not let you volunteer at Red Cross, what about at a food bank at a local church, or at a homeless shelter? These places are always looking for enthusiastic volunteers such as yourself.