I supposed u didnt read 'an introduction to intergalactical sexual intercourse' just yet..
Its available in any bookstore anywhere, except andromeda, they have a different path of metabolism.
First of all, human have two intelectual processing system in two brain hemisphere.
In female both the system activated in the same time(enhanced corpus callosum)thus making them act differently than what actually they think.
To make them pay attention quite easy, but to make them like u then u should confuse both the system.. The visually enhanced side may be distracted with beautiful items like rings, handsome face, flowers.
The auditory enhanced side may be distracted with promises, sweet talks etc
Its the first stage, in the second stage u may stimulate the more primitive part called the amygdala. Touches, gesture and so on.
The animal side of human is basiccally drived by instinct of feed and sex.
Read carefully, for further info, read that book by the first earth colonist.
'an introduction to intergalactical sexual intercourse'