probably yeh when your older, but maybe you should just be more "safe choice" when your older.
dude one ur not boring. bcos ur not a pothead doesnt make you boring, coolest people I know dont touch drugs. so doing drugs is nothing to anyone.
following rules is cool as long as you dont obsess over it. like no food in a computer room gay rule, would you tell someone to stop eating...if u would u needa chill. more important things to get your kecks twisted over.
only thing i can recommend is just dressing differently... you dont have to go completely emo for example cos a) youd be an emo b) youd look a poser for changing so fast. but just mix it up abit, variety will do so much 4 ya.
so maybe u should "let your hair down abit" since ur in high school. once your dead, your dead a loooooooooooong time, just do what u want.