Defining virginity can be confusing.
For females, virginity used to be defined by an intact hymen. The hymen is located about a half-inch inside the vagina. Not all girls are born with hymens, which makes this definition of virginity somewhat misleading.
Another definition of a virgin is a girl whose vagina has not been penetrated sexually. The problem with this definition is that there are different ways of penetration.
You may need to first figure out how you define "sex" before you define "virginity." For instance, one person might think that any penetration of the vagina equals sexual intercourse. Other people restrict the definition of "sex" to penetration by the penis. Some people believe oral sex is "sex;" others disagree. These concepts depend on both emotional and physical factors. You have to determine what virginity means to you.
Two more terms you should be familiar with are "abstinence" and "celibacy."
"Abstinence" (based on the word "abstain") can refer to voluntarily giving up anything, including eating or drinking. In the context of virginity, abstinence refers to not having sex.
"Celibacy" specifically refers to sexual abstinence. "Chastity" means almost the same thing as both "virginity" and "abstinence," but may be used in different contexts.
I say you are still a virgin, ok. and unless you were rap god forbid. then nobody can take that away, cuz you are giving for mind, body and soul to that one person. you are sharing your self with a person.
I wish I waited, I had sex for the first time when I was 19. please just wait. And be careful ok, guys really are after one thing.