Q: Are they hurting you? A: Physically, no. Q: Are they affecting your marriage? A: Yes, actually. Marriage has always been about discrimination. It's the same reason we don't let 8-year-olds get married, or why we don't allow polygamy. Q: What will happen to you if two people of the same gender get married? A: My marriage will be associated with sodomy, despite the fact my spouse and I are not. Q: Is the world going to end? No? A: Can you prove your assertion? No, you cannot. Q: What's the problem? A: I've already told you. Christians do not desire that anyone go to hell, just as our Father in Heaven does not desire that. We'd rather people repent, and turn unto the Lord. Unfortunately, sodomy is the pinnacle of God having left someone. To allow sodomites to marry is to actually take the institution that was sanctified by the Lord, and to distort it into something else. Sodomites do not have a connubial love, and they cannot KNOW connubial love. And you're not 'legitimately curious.' If you were, you would not start off attempting to condescend those who disagree with you.