If I am still in High School at age 18, can my parents keep me at home if I am supporting myself?
Now that I have a job, I am willing to move out of my home when I turn 18 in August 2009. Unfortunately, I have to take one extra semester of High School before I graduate. Will my parents still have legal guardianship over me before I graduate in January 2010?
I live in Michigan by the way. I was told by an adult that they still would so I decided to do some research and I am coming up with a blank. Some websites say yes, others say no. Please help! =D
Actually, I am covered with our insurance until I move out the very first time. At least, that's what I've been told by them. Thank you by the way =D I have no other way to respond that I know of...
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
What makes you think you are an adult at age 18?
ALSO, DO YOU BELIVE YOU'RE MORE MATURE THAN CHRIST WAS AT YOUR AGE?
You see below why I ask that, but first a little biology.
Do you know why you are considered an adult at age 18? Because the boys have it. Why do they have it? Because they can be drafted at that age. Why are they drafted at that age? Because the human brain is still so much mush at that point.
They have to overcome the inherent reservation to killing another human. As you get older, this becomes harder. In a way, it is a form of brain washing.
The human brain develops in stages.
At birth, until age two, the human brain is at the same level as most upper level mammals. Some thing can be learned, but long term memory is not yet established. There are children that develop earlier and faster, but their average life span is also shorter. People like Einstein didn’t develop their full intelligence until in his 20s.
At age two, the brain begins developing the ability for long term memory storage. This is what most parents call the terrible twos, but there is nothing terrible as it shows the wonder of the human brain. It takes ten years for the brain to store enough data for the next stage, CONCEPTUAL THOUGHT.
This BEGINS developing at puberty. It is a time when we BEGIN understanding concepts such as love. Prior to this time, it was just a word adults used under certain situations.
This stage takes 12 years to complete in females, and 18 years to complete in males.
Christ was not mature enough to leave home, and make his own decisions, until age 30. Until this time you are still feeling the desires and wants of a child. Your body is producing a hormone that overrides the logic of your brain, when you really want something. As an adolescent it was that newest toy, but as a teenager, it’s a boy, or being an adult. It is all the same. You so desire something that all else is ignored.
You have at least 60+ years of life still ahead of you. I know that you have trouble seeing past age 20, let alone 78. I very well remember what it was like and how many of the decisions I made at age 18 that affected my life, though in many ways I would not give up the 33-year-old daughter I now have.
There is a whole world waiting for you out there. Sure, getting out of the house may be nice, but the inherent dangers it can affect the rest of your life and the choices you may have made otherwise.
If you’re not planning to go to college, than go to a trade school. Many blue collar jobs earn 50-200% more after just a year’s training, than what most earn after four years of college. You also might consider the Peace Corp. You can see a lot of the world while you’re still young.
Don't look at 18 as a time to escape your parents, but as a time when you can demonstrate adult patience in waiting and learning more from your parents.
This was the choice made by Chrst made. Do you think you are better than him?
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Listen when you turn 18 you can move out and they cant stop you. Even if there was some archaic law in the state legislation that said you had to wait until the semester was over there would be no enforcement, what I mean by that is even if the law said you could not move out until you graduate, you could just go ahead and move out at age 18 anyway and they would not bother to do anything about it.
- kaluab09Lv 51 decade ago
no they wont have legal guardianship after you turn 18, you are free to do whatever you want, for insurance purposes, you could move out and say you still live there to get insurance,
- dukefentonLv 71 decade ago
As far as I know, they can't keep you from moving out. Oddly though, you might still be considered a dependent for getting health insurance. For more details, consult an attorney who knows the laws in your state - there could be quirks that non-experts wouldn't know.
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- tammeeLv 61 decade ago
Get out there and show some responsibility!!!! I'm sure your parents are wondering the same thing. Grow up, get a job and show that you can do it. It's very stressful on them watching you just sit on your butt and do nothing to show your responsibilities!!!
- douganLv 44 years ago
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