What do the guys think?

I never use to believe in fate in or love at first sight. But I met a guy and well thats all changed. We talked via email for for about 2 months then we met last saturday and hit it off really well and hung out all day sunday at my place. That night he texted me and told me he likes me a lot and that im everything he has been looking for and more :-). I use to think those people who said I love you to early where just despreate and pathatic and I never believed it could really happen that fast for two people. Well he told me he is in love with me and I feel the same I mean ive never felt this way about anybody ever before!. Im going to meet his mom and sister next friday and he is taking today off of work so we can spend the day togthere and of course the weekend too. Do you guys believe in fate or love at first sight? I want to hear stories from people who have been threw the same thing as me and what they think on it. I mean can this really be for real? We have never had sex and we already said we dont need to move that fast and that time will come when it comes so its not like the guy is just trying to get in my pants or anything like that. He already has met my parents and sister and he wants to meet all my friends too and yesterday we talked on the phone for 6 hours! neither one of us likes to talk on the phone either. So what does everyone think?.

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  • minai
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago
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    this is gonna sound nerdy but i met my bf online and 9 months later he moved to nyc to be with me, i've met his mom, she likes me, my parents met him and they like him, we've been together for 1 year and still going strong.

    don't think too hard about it, just be happy and enjoy it :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    this is great and i realy hope it works out,,,,but dont get carried away by the whole fairy tail scenario. It may just work out that this guy realy is your sole mate, but its easy to get carried away when something like this happens to you and then you can get hurt when it doesnt turn out like you hoped.

    I met my girlfriend while on holiday, there was an instant attraction, both physicaly and mentaly, she was nothing like any other woman id ever met, at the time i was the same as you, maybe this was ment to be etc, dont get me wrong, we're still together, i love her and she loves me, but we have arguments and sometimes i think back to when we met and realise i was blinded, nobody is perfect,all im saying is, you dont know this guy, he will have faults, everybody does, if you think this relationship is going to be all hearts and flowers then you'll get hurt. take your time, enjoy getting to know each other and learn to love each others faults.

    good luck.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yeah I think it's definetly possible I fell in love with my boyfriend in about 2 months and we've been dating for 15 months and everyday i just fall more and more in love with him. When you get to know the person I think that is when you know whether or not you love the person

  • 1 decade ago

    I met my wife we went on one date and I asked her to marry me now and after 12 years, 3 kids, 2 dogs and a rabbit we are still together. Sometimes you just know.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Hey sometimes you just really click with someone. Try to take it slow as possible. Really get to know each other before making any rash decisions, and protect yourself with a little slow down.

  • 1 decade ago

    I do believe you can have love at first sight, but he also just sounds to "fake" to me. Saying all of the right things at the right times....

    Advise: Keep on going, but just be careful.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It happens. It really happens. So many people refuse to believe it until it happens to them. Good luck and be happy.

  • 1 decade ago

    stay strong

    i love u

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well once i took this chick to mcdonalds and she said i love this place!

  • 1 decade ago

    YES! Hook up with him! :)

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