i've been with my hubby almost 6 years married 4 yr and we have to small children,im not happy. is this normal?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    You are missing something in the marriage, You need to pinpoint what is making you so unhappy and work on changing that. It could be just that he is not attentive, If that is the case, don't hold it in, make him understand what you are feeling and that if it goes on things could get much worse. There is always a way to work things out, unless he is abusive, or cheating. You owe it to the children you and he decided to have, to do your best to make it work, even f it takes marriages counseling.

    By the way, there are always going to be periods of time where you feel restless and so will he. You both need to make sure that your love is strong enough to withstand those time, because when they are over, you will feel even closer.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If you are looking to other people to make you happy you will never be happy love you need to find it in yourself and then it makes dealing with stuff thrown to you by life so much easier!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    if love is gone or never was being unhappy is normal yes.. if your still in love then find something 2 do with yourself 2 make you happy.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Grow up. Hang in there and the spark comes back. People are not disposable diapers.

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  • 1 decade ago

    why dont u try Counseling ? Both of u need to give ur best shot and decide. It would emotional havoc if u take decisions prematuerly.... its always best to work hard and and give up.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    if you have kids jus make sure there happy, selfish

  • 1 decade ago

    depends on you circumstances ... you need to give more detail here...

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