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If a guy is abusive and you obey him will he stop?

If a guy is abusive and you obey him will he stop?

like lets say its the beggining of the relationship, he acts very jellous, wants to be with you ALL the time and controlls you. now if you obey him and stay indoors be with only him etc, will he stop? could he be abusive because your not giving him the attention he needs? im just curious here?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    No. He or she will keep on doing it until you are damaged, or dead, or a complete, broken person. leave the situation.

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  • 1 decade ago

    In this scenario I don't think he would ever be fully satisfied even if you obeyed his every command. He will more than likely find something impossible for you to do just so that he can abuse you when you can't do it. Anger must be managed and not suppressed and if you do everything for him you will just suppress his anger and he will explode some day which could result in killing.

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  • 1 decade ago

    No, he won't.

    Such people love control and feeling of power over their women and it doesn't really matter for them if you really flirt with other men or not. You can be very prude, but such a man will get jealous of your parents or female friends. A man that abuses his gf or wife in most cases (like 99%) just like it, he would find any reason to beat and control her.

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  • Aya
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    No, he'll just continue abusing you to get you to do what he wants, because by obeying him you'll have proven that being abusive gets him what he wants. In fact, it would probably just get worse, not better.

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  • pab
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    really now if a guy is abusive you don't obey him...you leave him!

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  • 1 decade ago

    Nope, probably not. It would probably just get harder to satisfy him.

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  • Gypsy
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    No he will not! If this is happening to you, please find help!!!

    Source(s): Experience.
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  • 1 decade ago

    No he won't stop !!!!!

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