If a guy is abusive and you obey him will he stop?

If a guy is abusive and you obey him will he stop? like lets say its the beggining of the relationship, he acts very jellous, wants to be with you ALL the time and controlls you. now if you obey him and stay indoors be with only him etc, will he stop? could he be abusive because your not giving him the attention... show more If a guy is abusive and you obey him will he stop?
like lets say its the beggining of the relationship, he acts very jellous, wants to be with you ALL the time and controlls you. now if you obey him and stay indoors be with only him etc, will he stop? could he be abusive because your not giving him the attention he needs? im just curious here?
Update: thank you doreen!! I will contact the number asap!! do they have shelters you can go to?? im in a rough situation and i have no where to go at the moment.. its 1 am here at the moment
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