No, I would say run, don't walk, away as quickly as possible!!! Abuse never goes away. It will only get worse. Please don't let yourself get attached to someone like this and end up getting hurt. And don't do like so many women do and think that you can "fix him." It NEVER happens. I've seen too much abuse in my lifetime and have been a victim of child abuse myself. You don't only have yourself to think about but your children, if you have them now, or future children if you stay with this person and make a family. Some jealousy in a relationship can be ok. It just shows that a person cares about you. But that person should trust you anyway. Jealousy should never become abusive. And whatever you do, you don't want to obey someone who is abusive and tries to control you. People like that are addicted to power and want to feel superior to someone. Sometimes they are victims of abuse themselves who never learned how to deal with it. Sometimes they are just mistreated at work and want to "boss" someone else. But, whatever their malfunction, it is not your place to fix them. You can suggest that they need help, but please don't stay in a relationship with someone like this.