I really enjoy having sex with my ex boyfriend, but he's still in love with me, and im not. Help!?

I want something serious with this guy later on in the future, and I just want to have fun in highschool... this guy still loves me, but i just like having sex with him.

i'm completely breaking his heart, I don't mean to.

i really care about him..

what do i do about this?

tough it out? or move on?

3 Answers

  • Erica
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    You definitely need to stop having sex with him, the poor guy. That's not fair to him at all. If you don't want him to hate you, courteously and gently let him down. Don't give him false hope.

  • 1 decade ago

    Having sex with him can give him false hope. It's toying with his emotions. If this is breaking his heart, then you are being selfish because you just want the sex. You are using him.

  • 1 decade ago

    tell him you want to be 'friends with benefits' only for now.

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