Where can I find tasteful advice on changing my wife's adult diaper? She's bed-ridden and paralyzed on right.?

My wife suffered a stroke, is paralyzed on her right side and therefore can't provide much help. At the hospital, the nurse's aides always shooed me out of the room when she needed changing. Now that she's home, I mainly need help in how to position the clean diaper underneath her buttocks.
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