Do you think how big your penis is can have an effect on how confident you are?

Question

I have a pretty small penis.....especially when I'm not hard....and I just don't feel confident around girls when I'm at parties or anywhere for that regards....i've had sex before, and its not that bad, but....do you think a person with a big penis is more confident overall?

Answer 1

The most sensitive parts of the vagina are within the first two inches. That puts you at an advantage - you'll have an easier time of stimulating it. Having a small penis also makes oral sex much easier - not as much of a "job".

As far as confidence goes, a lot of men who have a reason to believe they are good at something makes them so overconfident that they don't work as hard. This applies to a lot of men who have larger penises because they believe that bigger is better, and therefore do not work as hard as they should to please women.

Answer 2

This is unfortunately true! A big penis can boost a guy's confidence a lot! However, if you have a smaller penis, it doesn't mean that you have to end up into a depression and curse yourself for the rest of your life!

You should learn to find other ways to boost your confidence! After all, sex is just one aspect of our lives. Guys with small penis could fail elsewhere, where you can top and do better than them.

SO, you should stop thinking too much about this as you already have a happy sex life apparently!

Answer 3

Yeah, having a small, or a "perceived" small penis can have an affect upon ones confidence, but only if he lets it!
While some women are concerned about the size of a man's penis, most are more interested in whether the guy is likable, lovable, caring, considerate, trustworthy, honest, sincere, and a good provider.
If you are just strictly concerned with sexually pleasing a woman, you could always learn some new techniques and positions, as well as providing oral and manual (hands) stimulation and making sure she is pleased before you "get yours", as it were.
However, I would wager that if you just be yourself and get to know some women, you'll have no trouble finding one or more that you like and who likes you regardless of what you're "packing"!

Answer 4

I think people can be insecure about anything. If you had a pretty large penis, but small eyes-- you probably would feel self-conscious about your eyes. But neither small eyes nor a small penis really make a difference to the effect you have on other people and how much they can love and respect you and want to be around you.

Answer 5

I think society has made it so that a man's ego is directly connected to his pants. Size doesn't really matter if the person has no idea what to do with it. Trust me. A hyper teenage boy with eight inches stabbing at you does not feel better than an experienced person with three inches. =)

Answer 6

How small is small?
Average length is 3 - 4 Inches when not erect...
Why would you worry about it? So long as it works how it should...
As a general rule men who constantly boast about how big their penises are feel insecure about their size.

Answer 7

no, out of the 20 girls ive slept with, 18 have mentioned that I have a big ***.

And im still pretty shy and insecure around girls and groups of people.

Answer 8

I gotta say I do believe so D....I've noticed that I feel more confident due to a larger penis that just takes up more space...lol...

seriously though, this is just the thing you gotta read:

"The Confidence of having a Larger Penis":

http://mistermanpower.net/blog/?p=117

Answer 9

hey dude think abou this
if you want to have sex with someone you love
they shouldnt care about your si\ze
if you know how to use it right and well
no one will care
so you have a small one
just remember
theirs people out their who are smaller;)
be safe

Answer 10

i would say yes becuase
but honestly i would not worry and you should be confident becuase you are only hurting yourself