How do we make our own lives difficult ?
How are our actions responsible for the strss/difficulties in our lives ? Your comments on this...
how to avoid the same..
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- PLUTOLv 61 decade agoBest Answer
it is mainly because we focus on negative thoughts rather than positive ones...hoe to avoid that ?
please read this.
HOW DO I STOP NEGATIVE THOUGHTS?
by Rhonda Byrne "How do I stop my negative thoughts?" - is a question that I have
been asked many times. If you have ever asked this question then
you will feel such enormous relief in knowing the answer, because
it is so simple. How do you stop negative thoughts? You plant good
thoughts! When you try to stop negative thoughts, you are focusing on what
you don't want - negative thoughts - and you will attract an
abundance of them. They can never disappear if you are focused on
them. The "stop" part is irrelevant - the negative thoughts are
your focus. It doesn't matter if you are trying to stop negative
thoughts or control them or push them away, the result is the same.
Your focus is on negative thoughts, and by the law of attraction
you are inviting more of them to you. The truth is always simple and it is always easy. To stop negative
thoughts, just plant good thoughts! Deliberately plant good
thoughts! You plant good thoughts by making it a daily practice to
appreciate all the things in your day. Appreciate your health, your
car, your home, your family, your job, your friends, your
surroundings, your meals, your pets, and the magnificent beauty of
the day. Compliment, praise, and give thanks to all things. Every
time you say "Thank you" it is a good thought! As you plant more
and more good thoughts, the negative thoughts will be wiped out.
Why? Because your focus is on good thoughts, and what you focus on
you attract. So don't give any attention to negative thoughts. Don't worry about
them. If any come, make light of them, shrug them off, and let them
be your reminder to deliberately think more good thoughts now. The more good thoughts you can plant in a day, the faster your life
will be utterly transformed into all good. If you spend only one
day speaking of good things and saying "Thank you" at every single
opportunity, you will not believe your tomorrow. Deliberately
thinking good thoughts is exactly like planting seeds. As you think
good thoughts you are planting good seeds inside you, and the
Universe will transform those seeds into a garden of paradise. How
will the garden of paradise appear? As your life!
- GentlemanLv 41 decade ago
What do you mean by making life difficulty. When you know for sure you are making life difficult, you should actually stop doing so. Don’t you think answer lies within the question.
Your fate is the result of your deeds / actions (Karma) of the current birth & previous births. It is only our actions which is responsible for the strss/difficulties in our lives.
Desire should limit to only your karma / that is your deeds and expect the least from life. Expectations / desires leads to all troubles in life.
It is actually your perception and how you have created your world based on your desire. Desire leads to you working towards success (so called success in your books).
For example, in your case. You want to be something. The desire of wanting to be something is making life difficult for you.
We always think that everything is in our hand and we can do it. But what we don’t understand is that he should wish even after all your efforts. That is where faith comes in to picture.
Faith means complete faith (in arabic complete faith is called Islam). You cannot have ½ faith or some fraction of faith. When you have complete faith you will not perceive difficult situations as difficulty, instead you will treat them as challenges.
Live is very difficult if you look at it like that. If you are start look at life in a simple way, life is very simple to lead.
With warm regards
- smallLv 71 decade ago
I believe that it is inactive indecision and worry over the uncertain future that creates the maximum difficulty in our life. Wrong decisions can create problems which can be faced if we make up our mind, but procrastination leaves us hanging uncomfortably without any clue as to how to handle the situation. Similarly, a lack of concern over future can at worst lead to wrong decisions, but the worry leads to procrastination. I have always realized that physical difficulties are of a much lower comparative level opposite mental difficulties, the same way as mental health problems present a much higher level of difficulties to tackle than the physical health issues.
- NaguruLv 71 decade ago
There are two types of people in the world.
In the first type. People are well organized, systematic, punctual, disciplined, orderly, regular, positive in mind, morally strong, intellectually strong, spiritually strong. They have right vision. They have direction. They have speed. They have right kind channelizing their resources. They do not know what is lethargy (laziness). They are active and dynamic in their positive outlook. They are honest and sincere. They are interested in serving the humanity. Besides they may have other good qualities and virtues which I could not quote here as I am not able to recollect abruptly. Such people may not find any difficulty to face their normal life.
On the contrary there are the second type of people. They are diametrically opposite. They are not organized, they are not systematic, not punctual, not disciplined, not orderly, not regular, not positive in outlook, weak morals, intellectually poor, spiritually weak, No proper vision. No direction. No speed. etc. etc. The second type of people make their own lives difficult.
The accumulated result of all our virtues and vices will bear the fruit.Source(s): own
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- Vinay SharmaLv 41 decade ago
You can avoid the stress and difficulties in your life by stop asking others to answer your questions. How can anyone answer or provide solutions to your problems when no one can go through the same the way you are going through them as well as no one can match the intensity and after affects of the problems the way they will affect you.
Its your life, your decisions and your responsibilities. Be brave to take decisions as well as to be responsible for their consequencies.
Step down if you feel climbing up can make you lonely. Step back if you feel moving forward can make you fragile and easy target. Step in if you feel steping out can never let you face circumstances and come over it.
Trust yourself, love yourself and be yourself.
Regards to the soul which has behomed in your self.
VinaySource(s): Your questioning ability.
- InayLv 51 decade ago
we make our own lives difficult when
1. we lack understanding
2. cannot accept things
3. and no contentment
in which all has the same roots.....don't love yourself alone....
- Anonymous1 decade ago
There are a few folksy sayings in the American vernacular, though I wish we abided by them more: "Stop trying to keep up with the Jones's," "Don't try to ice skate up hill," "You don't spit into the wind," "You don't 'crap' where you eat." I like the little old wisdom nuggets.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
By ignoring ourselves and not understanding the mistake we are committing and by repeating the mistakes again and again.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
One must not get demoralized.Difficulties will come up but one must be firm to get over up and down problems.It is part of life.Problems will come but one should cross over?
- D_guyLv 61 decade ago
..to think more and more of unwanted things..which leads to the creation of more and more complications in our present life..ANd also the main is:Very often Changing of desires..I believe stick to one ambition..