Am I being too sensitive?
After a disagreement with my husband I went to work. Then I texted him: I dont want us 2 go thru the day upset with each other. I m sorry. And I just remembered i put my acct # on the ck, so you can't cash it.
He texted back: ok
That is all he texted. and I am upset. Is that an unacceptable response to my text or am I expecting too much?
- Betty SpaghettiLv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
Men need to think...don't be upset. You can work it out with him later. Plus, if he's at work, he's in Work-Mode...men don't *do* emotional thinking at work. That just IS. Be calm, it'll work out, okay? Give him time.
- texicangirlLv 61 decade ago
He's a man, be glad he even acknowledged your text.
He might just be busy and can't elaborate right now.
Personally I would prefer a verbal response, texting is so detached from emotion. And I think you want him to say sorry, but wouldn't you rather hear it?
On Tuesday I called my bf from work basically just to yell at him. But I didn't call him back, when I got him I told him I was sorry for calling JUST for that, but I want him to understand my frustration. We hugged, he apologized too and it felt sooo much better. So don't feel bad he didn't text a whole love story back, do it in person at home where there will be a hug and a kiss (or more) in the end. ;)
- JessLv 61 decade ago
Yes, I think you're being a little too sensitive.
It could have been worse, he could have not answered at all, or he could have answered back with something really rude.
I think that in a good relationship you need to pick and choose your battles, and sweetie this seems like a little thing to be upset about.
- 1 decade ago
mine is the same way; that's just the way yours is to I'm sure. Guys typically aren't verbal or into the phone at all. Everything will be fine when you get home tonight. I can't tell you how many times I've stewed about sh*t at work all day only to get home and everything is cool. Don't sweat it.
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- MynameisLv 61 decade ago
Don't be upset. He responded. For a guy that's big step. Just get through the day and make up when you get home.
- GrammieLv 61 decade ago
Maybe some peoplel just don't like to text long messages.
- girlLv 71 decade ago
guys by nature are less emotional than women.
if i were you, i might be a little hurt still from the bland answer, but i would accept it, and move on.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Give him a little time.
He'll probably be fine by the time you get home
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Try calling, your adults, talking maybe better than texting