Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

Is it a good thing if a guy is flattered that you like him?

I had a crush on my guy friend for a year and this fall I told him I liked him and know he doesn't feel the same way, but I had to get it off my chest. He was REALLY shocked, didn't know what to say, and smiling. He repeated to me that he was flattered and when I said again that I know he doesn't feel the same way he said, no, it's not that. I like you, then later added, as a friend. But he broke up with his long time g/f 6 months ago and still isn't ready to date again. We left with talking about school and stuff and he said we should def. hang out more. He didn't say he liked me and he didn't say he doesn't like me, so should I just take it that he has no feelings for me at all? Why would a guy say this?

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