this probably is not the answer you want but you just have to get over it! if you want a girl to really know you then you need to be able to talk to her and let her see the real you! just think- most girls, especially at that age, are just as shy as the guy so they are probably juts as nervous walkign up to you! that takes them "courage" so you need to show them that you can be comfortable around them, wether you really are or not, and that will make them more comfortable and everythign will be all right. Once you get to know the person bettre i assure you that you wont be shy or nervous, especially if you really like them! are you shy aroudn your friuends that know you well? you might want to try to think ahead of things you could say to them- for example is you know this one girl who approaches you often is in your class, tehn when she comes up ask for the notes from that class, or make some joke about somethign taht happened in it. you really just have to calm down and let the girl know that you like her, or she will think that you are blowing her off. just pretend they are just a friend and talk to them like any other friend. when the person you are talking to is not shy then you should be able to loosen up too. also, why are you in desperate need for a gf? when the right girl comes you will know and you should take a chnace then, not just get a gf because youu want one. good luck and try to just be yourself!
· 1 decade ago