Why should men pay child support for children they never see?

not by his choice, the guy is a good person doesn't do drugs, has an ok paying job and wants to be in their life but doesn't have money to go to court b/c he has to pay bills so he can live somewhere and he pays child support. the mother keeps the kids away and doesn't let them call or answer when the dad calls.... show more not by his choice, the guy is a good person doesn't do drugs, has an ok paying job and wants to be in their life but doesn't have money to go to court b/c he has to pay bills so he can live somewhere and he pays child support.

the mother keeps the kids away and doesn't let them call or answer when the dad calls. yet asks for more money and gets it just like that no problem.

why should a man pay a for child that practically isn't his.
(i say that b/c he never sees or hears from them- i know he IS still the father)
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