Neither! A nose ring reminds me of a fancy-looking wart. That goes for the eyebrow and lip, too. As far as the tongue goes, I think it is very feminine for guys to have it (I don't care what they say about the oral thing), and the girls who have it - ick. They talk funny and it clacks against their teeth until they get used to it. Not to mention it is easier to see than you think, and depending on your career choice....
Personally, I like tattoos. I would probably get 100 if I could afford it, and didn't have to hide them for work. I guess we all have our different body decorating techniques.
Do what works for you - don't listen to anyone else, because it's your body. So don't get it where someone else thinks it's cool, get it where YOU think it looks the best.
Best of luck!