Help me find name of movie, please?

there was a movie that came on tv in the 90's, a young man robbed a bank, takes an older woman hostage, they go to a hotel, he ends up liking her alot, but he has a pregnant girlfriend. him and the hostage picks up the girlfriend at some institution, he's running from the police, at the end of the movie the hostage... show more there was a movie that came on tv in the 90's, a young man robbed a bank, takes an older woman hostage, they go to a hotel, he ends up liking her alot, but he has a pregnant girlfriend. him and the hostage picks up the girlfriend at some institution, he's running from the police, at the end of the movie the hostage woman gets a letter saying they named their baby lenneth. thats all i know, can you help me know the name of the movie?
Update: i dont know the actors.... just a young guy, older woman in her 30s or 40s, and some pregnant girlfriend. it had the song slide by the goo goo dolls in it somewhere in the background.... i have no clue.
Update 2: yes, Earthly possessions!!!!! thank you sooo much....
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