My boyfriend broke up with me in a way that left me confused and not understanding what his true feelings were?
The next day, he apologized for hurting me and said that I was a great thing that came to his life. I begged to see him and told him that I did not break up with him, but he refused to see me and we basically broke up. Then, I was able to convince him to see me, but said that we could not get back together. He said that we were going to fall in love six months down the line and if I was aware of that? I even mentioned to him on MSN that I loved him and he never replied back. He would never open up his emotions to me. Was he a player? I cried so much to get back with him, but he never agreed to it. During that time, I got a promotion in my job and he also worked for the same company. The only problem was that he was struggling to maintain the job and eventually got fired. He was not able to pass an important test for the job and lied to me that he had passed the test and they fired him because he constantly failed the test. He had mentioned to me that he still wanted to be my friend and he felt so bad when I refused. He said that he could not ever see me with anyone else and that the only problem was the timing and that our relationship was perfect otherwise.
Recently, I saw a picture of us on his myspace page and I am the only girl there. He has a song on his profile on his myspace about not wanting to fall in love.
I am so confused and I do not know what happened to us and why he just did not want to give me a second chance. Please help me understand what could be the real problem.
BTW he never tried to use me for sex, even when we had a chance, he did not want to take advantage of me, and we never did something like that.