How do you start dating again?

was married for 22 years...have been divorced for one year, but i think i'm ready to start dating....where do i look?

8 Answers

  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    hooking up with people in bars doesn't usually end in long term relationships...the kind of people there are usually just looking for fun. unless that's what you want?

    if your looking for something more meaning-full take up a new hobby!

    loads of women now take dance lessons to keep fit. its an untapped gold mine for guys! all the girls will be impressed with your moves and by you doing something guys wouldn't usually do,

    and hey! if your really bad maybe they'll even offer to help you out! :)

  • 1 decade ago

    Well you could try online dating, but personally I have had pretty bad experiences with that. If you do use one try eharmony because people are more serious on there. Other than that volunteer places, put the word out to your friends that you are looking, those things help alot.

  • guckin
    Lv 4
    3 years ago

    ah definite i've got faith u thoroughly, i've got been given otu of a 5 year and suitable off teh bat i had this lady that grow to be already fascinated so i've got been given fortunate taht the timing grow to be there (not plenty anymore yet thats yet another tale)....look, what u ought to do is in basic terms initiate talking im serious i dont care if u r in basic terms standin in line at ur interior of reach cvs n possibly the dude in front of u is gorgeous or sumthin locate something he's retaining or perhaps he's lookin at a mag in basic terms point out sumthin say hi in basic terms say sumthin! yea its not constantly gonna come out suitable n u would sound like an fool each and every from time to time yet thats in basic terms ur lack of self belief cuz u been out the loop for see you later, now its time 4 u to construct it decrease back up one layer at a time, as 4 ur ex no person man or woman is a similar so overlook abouyt that crap thoroughly and in basic terms make convo with random human beings n constantly be beneficial it attracts goofd issues to you possibly not suitable away n it might take a at the same time as yet at last you will get ur groove decrease back (no pun meant haha!) :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    look in public places. if you're religious, i'd suggest church.

    my uncle just got out of a similar situation, and he's recently engaged to a co-worker.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    all i can tell you is to be very careful out here.its most likely change since you been on the single side of things.good luck

  • 1 decade ago

    when you look it is difficult to find...just do the things you enjoy and maybe you will find someone when you are not even looking. if you enjoy art,music,plays,church,dancing,etc etc

  • 1 decade ago

    sounds silly but i think love comes to you....just carry on with life socialise and if it's ment to happen it will

  • 1 decade ago


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