**for guys** do girls have to be pretty?

I have a project. The teacher set us up in groups according to gender. I need these following questions to be answered:

1.Do girls have to be attractive for you to like them?

2.Let's say that a girl is pretty, but heavy-set? How would you feel?

3.Let's say a girl is only skin and bones, but pretty? How would you feel?

4.If a girl was pretty, but had to use a ton of makeup to achieve her look, would you still think she's attractive?

5.Do guys even like makeup?

6.Briefly describe the first 3 things you notice about a girl.

lastly,

7.What kind of personality do you like?

Much appreciated!

Update:

when i say heavy-set, i mean 20 lbs at max..not obese or anything.

Update 2:

I agree Willow..

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  • 1 decade ago
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    1. no not at all!

    2. doesn't matter-- no ones perfect!

    3. doesn't matter-- no ones perfect!

    4. yea, but i do not like a lot of make up

    5. no, I like little or no makeup-- but i love black eyeliner every now and then :)

    6. Hair, smile, personality - (if able to see what her personality is like)

    7. Sweet,nice and caring!

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  • 1 decade ago

    I have a project. The teacher set us up in groups according to gender. I need these following questions to be answered:

    1.Do girls have to be attractive for you to like them?

    - Yes of course.. there is no doubt about this..

    2.Let's say that a girl is pretty, but heavy-set? How would you feel?

    - I won't like her .. but I'll just consider her as my friend

    3.Let's say a girl is only skin and bones, but pretty? How would you feel?

    - Hmm... I feel okay and If she is my girl.. I'll ask her to increase her weight :)

    4.If a girl was pretty, but had to use a ton of makeup to achieve her look, would you still think she's attractive?

    - No!! It's kinda plastic to me..

    5.Do guys even like makeup?

    - I don't..

    6.Briefly describe the first 3 things you notice about a girl.

    - Looks..

    - Shape

    - Personality

    lastly,

    7.What kind of personality do you like?

    - Talkative

    - Intelligent

    - Make me laugh ..

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  • 1 decade ago

    1. Not nescessarily conventionally attractive, but I have to be attracted to them in some way. Those two aren't quite the same thing. I'm extremely generous when it comes to looks (some say I have low standards), but there has to be some spark between us.

    2. What do you mean by "heavy set"? Do you mean maybe 30 lbs overweight? Or morbidly obese? If she's 30 lbs overweight or so, that's fine, I think girls need a little meat on their bones anyway. But with severe obesity, it would be more concern than anything. Being morbidly obese is unhealthy.

    3. Again, it would be concern, not disgust. Someone bone-thin is obviously unhealthy. My first impression would be that she's anorexic or, if she eats like a horse, that she has a tapeworm.

    4. That's the "Hollywood look". Not much of a fan of it. I'd wonder what she looked like without makeup.

    5. I know all women and girls love makeup, but I prefer a natural look or at least that she doesn't cake on too much of it.

    6. I notice her eyes, face, and her body shape/size if you're talking physical. Not too much I can describe about this. Those are just what I see first when I talk to someone.

    7. Here's where I'm a little more particular. I like a girl who is at least a little old-fashioned, sweet, caring, but also at the same time I want someone who's fun to be around. I like my girls a little old fashioned, but not so much the "oh dear, I broke a nail, what ever shall I do?" types. Also, I want her to be "human", meaning not trying to put on a dog and pony show for me, just act like herself (within reason). You know, kinda like that Emma Watson girl who plays in Harry Potter movies. She has a few what some call "quirks", but I find them endaring.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Personality is what i like the most but in saying that im not going to go off and date some ugly girl. I do not like a girl thats all skin and bones and in saying that i dont like them overweight. The first 3 things i notice about a girl are her smile and her hair and it may sound weird but i can kind of see their personality by the way they look. As for what i like in personality fun, friendly, caring. I don't know if this was what you're looking for but i only like serious relationships or just one night stands. Not into that 1 month bullS*$%.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Well the first thing everyone looks at is the persons appearance thats the first thing we are atracted to.

    The personality comes second but eventualy it overtakes and we no longer see the person just what the personality projects.

    If the female is a bit on the heavy side that wont matter because if we like the personality eventualy as i have said before we look past it.

    If a female is skiny that can be a turn off for guys because we may look at models but none of us realy want to be with them.

    Make up means shes not realy beautiful and honest with herself so shes not confident and we just like women like our partner to be strong and confident.

    We notice the hair, eyes and well this maybe wrong but the breasts.But most of the time what makes a guy know he loves a girl is her smile. if he feels a warmth inside when he makes her smile she the one for him.

    Confident Strong and Independent but will always be sure that she can cry on my shoulder and hide in my chest. She has to be sure of herself and me .

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  • 1 decade ago

    ok i'll bite

    1. They have to do "something" that attracts us to them. if its acting a certain way or hell having an attractive scent, something that will pull us in, not just looks. so no.

    2. Well, that's more about personal preference.. as a intimate relationship doesnt really matter how pretty she is, im like 130 lbs sooo that wouldnt work if the girl was pretty big boned but that wouldnt stop me from liking her.

    3. Pretty much the same the same thing. as said before im pretty damn skinny so that would be more of afit ablee match (as in intimate relation goes). still, doesnt matter how pretty she is it wouldnt affect the way I thought of them.

    4. yes, if i was attracted to her I dont think it would matter if she had or didnt have makeup on.

    5. I guess its aesthetically pleasing so it doesnt really matter.

    6. arg, honestly. smile, personality, confidence.

    7. Somone who is self confident but not arrogant

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    1. Well its how you carry yourself... girls dont have too be really sexy for most guys to like them its mostly about personality if you seem like a cool person then we like that and want to hang out with you and talk 2 you more but if you have ALL of those traits AND are attractive thats better.

    2. I dont know what u mean by heavyset sorry...

    3. Well I like slim girls personyall but if she looks good and again the main and most important thing PERSONALITY if a girl has that and she can get along with mostly EVERYBODY than most guys will like her... so there u go from a guys point of view!! To answer most of the other questions is this... the number 1 thing is PERSONALITY if you have that EVERYONE will like you

    HOPE I HELPED :) =)

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    1.Do girls have to be attractive for you to like them?yes, they have to be attractive "to me" imnot going to date someone that i think is repulsive

    2.Let's say that a girl is pretty, but heavy-set? How would you feel?-im fine with that :)

    3.Let's say a girl is only skin and bones, but pretty? How would you feel?-hmm i idk if i would date her, i wouldnt want to listen to her b*tching about needing to lose more weifght, i dont want to deal with someone like that

    4.If a girl was pretty, but had to use a ton of makeup to achieve her look, would you still think she's attractive?-not at all..thats so fake

    5.Do guys even like makeup?-i like a little makeup

    6.Briefly describe the first 3 things you notice about a girl.-waist, face, butt

    lastly,

    7.What kind of personality do you like?-a fun silly girl, spontaneous and active, funny, romantic

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  • 1 decade ago

    1) No, but it's definitely a plus

    2) As long as she's healthy, who cares?

    3) As long as she's naturally skinny, and not obsessed with being so, or is anorexic its fine.

    4) No. That's the worst.

    5) No

    6) Height/weight/skin tone I assume we mean physically notice from across the room and we aren't talking in terms of personality

    7) Quiet but friendly girls are the best.

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  • 1 decade ago

    1:Definitely...looks don't have to be the only attraction

    2:I may still like her. (i'm not a fan of huge women but there is more to a person then weight

    3:Not a big fan of a girl when I can feel her bones...it's just not healthy

    4:No..reminds me of a clown

    5:light makeup can hi-light certain features that are already pretty.

    6:Her laugh (if it is bad she can forget it.) her eyes( I prefer light eyes) Her energy(if she has a great attitude and upbeat)

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